Happy Thanksgiving!

Thank you guys for being there! Thank you for your thoughtfulness.

Love you all!

Puja

Failure, a stepping stone to success

At times we fail at work, in relationships, meeting our own expectations etc. In fact, in trying to achieve the best we fail most of the time. Sometimes things just don't work the way you want them to and its beyond your control. Personally, I feel dejected, lost and alone. However, over time I gather my wits and get back to life. I take a deep breath and say "let it go!" It is hard to follow than said.Thanks to Marshall Goldsmith. I had attended his seminar last year in Boston and he gave me some good stuff to learn for the rest of my life. Oh his book "What got your here, won't get you there" is a must read. I thought of sharing a few tips to overcome failure

1. Remain calm

2. Keep your anger to yourself

3. Write down your personal goals, analyse what went wrong, or was it just that bad hair day

4. Be positive and work towards your goal

5. Smile :)

6. If you have the will, you will get there!

Life is a challenge, lets face it.

Take home from Winston Churchill

"Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage that counts."

Relationships

Building relationships with people can be a task for most. Often we run into new clients, coworkers, cross teams, and acquaintances. At times you feel very comfortable with some personalities on exchanging a genuine smile and a firm handshake. However, for some personalities the pitch just isn't set and you are at discomfort. It is important to connect with clients to understand their needs. I learn't a new technique to break the ice when two people meet and one has no clue where to initiate a conversation. This technique is called FORM. It states the areas in which one can ask questions to their clients or customers to make them feel at ease. FORM stands for

F-Family

O-Occupation

R- Recreation

M-Motivation

If you are in any occupation where you interact with clients, you can ask them a few questions about their family, their current occupation, recreational activities which interest them the most and questions on what motivates them the most. Try to ask questions which will put a smile on your clients face, keeping in mind where to draw the line. I hope you are as excited as I am in bringing the FORM method to practice.

Success, Motivation, Excellence

Things have been rolling fast as I have recently joined a healthcare IT company. It was a long wait as most graduates had to go through during this economic downturn. As every new joiner, I am very excited about my new role as a software specialist and motivated to learn and excel in my class of trainees. It’s a challenge learning the vast features our product has to offer our clients. I am amazed to learn how things are changing and becoming more streamlined in the healthcare sector. In one of our class assignments, we were asked to prepare a research overview of the various medical specialties. I developed a liking for research and presenting it to my class since my mba course work days. It was due in a week. Being task oriented I was prepared in advance. To my surprise, we had a senior management walk in for a product training lecture and randomly ask people to present if they were ready, although it wasn’t due that day! I was the only one prepared and went for it, although I had a few details to take care of on one slide. This may not be a big deal for most, but for me it was a live example of one of my reads by Gordon A. MacFarlane, where he mentions that success comes when opportunity meets with preparation. For me, success was a sense of satisfaction I had by the end of the day.

Take home from Gordon-

Excellence is a result of
caring more than others think is wise,
risking more than others think is safe,
dreaming more than others think is practical,
expecting more than others think is possible.

Wanna pamper your skin?

It was one of those days when my skin needed some pampering. I decided to treat myself with this homemade banana facial mask. This recipie was shared by my mom. It is definitely a less expensive and a naturally rich alternative to artificial cosmetic masks available in the market. Bananas have moisturizing properties and are great for dry skin (my skin type). So those interested treat yourself with this easy recipie. Your skin will feel relaxed and moisturized this summer!

Ingredients:
1 ripe banana
2 tbspn honey (honey is an excellent skin brightner)

Procedure:
Mash the banana using a fork. Add honey and mix thoroughly for a smooth consistency. Apply using a face brush or your fingers over skin. Leave for 10 mins or until the mask dries. Wash with warm water.

The Gift of Giving

I stopped by to say hi to one of my friends (K)at her office. I share a connection with her from the day I joined my university. She is a motherly personality and always offers a warm welcome to international students like me. While catching up with her, I saw this post by W.Clement Stone on her desk and instantly asked for a copy. We were glad that we just clicked with the author's thoughts! Here is an excerpt from the passage

"Be generous! Give to those you love; give to those who love you;give to the fortunate;give to the unfortunate,yes, give specially to those to whom you dont want to give.You will receive abundance for your giving. The more you give the more you will have!"

On reading this I remembered my parents who always taught us the art of living and I cant thank them enough for all the values they inculcated in us as kids. Here's a quote which was recited often by my parents-

"Give to the world the best you have and the best will come back to you".

Now you know, why i was instantly connected to my friend? The excerpt and the quote concluded the same message :)